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B is for…

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B is for believe. Believe in yourself. I know it may seem hard to find success in whatever it is that you want to do especially if you have everybody telling you don’t do this, don’t do that. To be completely honest, no one will ever believe in you more than you ever will. Sure, family and friends love you and of course they believe in you, but they don’t want to see you fail so they rather you stick to something “safe”.

I say, forget that.. dream BIGGER and go HARDER, even it it’s something in your wildest of dreams! Everything is possible.. just takes a little time, patience, willing, hard work, passion and dedication. If you’ve always dreamt of opening up your own store, write out a business plan. If you want to get into fashion school, start researching the best schools. What I’m trying to say here is that.. no matter what you want to do, there’s always a way. You gotta want it more than the next person; if not, they will take it from you.

I get hundreds of emails from you guys saying you want to do what you always loved to do but don’t know where to start. I know it’s hard and may seem unreachable, but start with taking baby steps. Write out a plan, your short terms + long terms, start working towards the first step of your plan etc. and soon you’ll see everything will fall into place like it’s supposed to. Life is about taking chances, not about having them slip away. Put your fear of failing away and look to tomorrow for an opportunity to reach your dreams.

Remember, if you Dream, then you gotta Believe, and if you believe you will Achieve!

xo
ps- Currently in NYC for a fun little trip.. photos to come soon!

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[do action=”rstyle-post-links”]Shirt: Denim & Suppy by Ralph Lauren
Shorts: Denim & Supply by Ralp Lauren
Heels: Isabel Marant
Baseball cap: JCrew (mens)[/do]

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    82 Comments

  1. Britt Whit Comment #1

    love the message in this Jules! You are so right! <3

    love from San Francisco,
    Britt+Whit

  2. My sweet closet Comment #2

    I love your pics!!! :)

  3. Christine Comment #3

    I love this post and the whole message that comes with it. I just wanted to drop by and say that you have been such a style inspiration to me since I started reading fashion blogs a few years back. I just recently started up my blog (after hestitating for a really long time) and this post really touched me because I know exactly what you’re talking about in it. I know that the fashion community can be a daunting and intimidating at times but I admire that fact that you have always stayed true to yourself. It’s refreshing to know that there are people like you in the fashion blogging community who are so down to earth. Hopefully you can check out my story and blog :) I truly took the plunge this year to Dream, Believe and Achieve. Hopefully I can accomplish something that I’ve always wanted to do. Have a great day!

  4. Lolita Comment #4

    Wow I love those shorts so much…

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  5. Emily Comment #5

    Love that little bit you wrote..and of course, your photos too!

  6. another woman Comment #6

    Have fun in NY! :)

    Love your short ! Big kiss!

    enjoy and achieve!

    Rose

  7. monkeyshines Comment #7
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  9. Stephanie Comment #9

    Love the little pep talk ! And the outfit is superb!

    -Stephanie
    @LaminLouboutins.com

  10. Naomi Comment #10

    That motivation text was what I needed :)

  11. kiwifahionblog Comment #11

    Jules I love your casual look with the “Blogger” hat lol. Always love your multi mini rings on your fingers!

  12. Leather & Ice Cream Comment #12

    Love the outfit!! And love your words, so true! ;)

    xoxo
    Marta

    LEATHER & ICE CREAM

  13. Paticia Paramo Comment #13

    Thanks for your inspiring words!

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  14. YOLONDA Comment #14

    Well said. I have been having this conversation a lot lately. Should I jump or keep sailing through; I really need to think about it. Great post!

    PS, you outfit is adorable as usual. BTW, What camera do you use for your photos?

  15. Rachelle Comment #15

    Great post Jules, love those words they motivated me even more. You look supa dupa cute in those shorts.

    xo
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  16. FripperyVintage Comment #16

    Lovely post. I’m feeling so inspired now.

  17. Cory Scott Comment #17

    O so cute!! LOve it
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    Xoxo Cory

  18. Inna Comment #18

    Jules you are such an inspiration! Thanks for the motivating words! I totally agree with you- you need to believe in yourself before anyone else will. Gorgeous outfit as always! Have fun in NYC!
    xx
    Inna
    Footprints in the City

  19. Domonique Comment #19

    This post is so appropriate for me at the moment, you’re so adorable Jules! I couldn’t agree with you more on every point that you’ve made! Hope you’re having fun in NYC.

    x

  20. Josefine Comment #20

    Lovely text you have wrote!
    You are really beautiful and you look like Jennifer Lopez

  21. Romantic Tea Comment #21

    Thanks for your advices ! Sometimes we just want to go really fast but it’s not how it works !

    Have a great trip !

  22. kcomekarolina Comment #22

    great look!

    xoxo from rome
    K.
    kcomekarolina.com

  23. Pamela Comment #23

    Just cool!!!

  24. fashionaltitude Comment #24

    This is such an inspiring post, Jules..I am at a time in my career path where I feek stuck though I know where I want to head to. First thing to remember is to believe in myself because if I don’t, nobody will…
    Thanks for the reminder. :-).
    I love your shorts, saw them in a store today, think of buying them.
    You look great.
    xo xo

  25. Eli Comment #25

    So inspiring! Thank you!

  26. Lisanne Comment #26

    Beautiful post! Thanks for all the inspiration you give me. I love the outfit you wear on the pictures and the pictures are amazing as always offcourse!

  27. Nesrin Comment #27

    You look gorgeous, I got the same short!

    xx

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  28. Voguerka Comment #28

    I’m impressed by your words. Very deep and touching, what you wrote. You gave me inspiration and motivation to work harder and dream bigger. Thank you!

  29. Ashley Comment #29

    Talk about inspirational. Not only is what you said, pushing me to go for it, but your legs. Holy wow. They rival Carrie Underwood!

    xo Ashley
    thetiniestfirecracker.com

  30. Lara Comment #30

    love the look, the camera, the red and white!!

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  31. ELVIRA Comment #31

    Your words are so inspiring for me right now… <3

  32. kendall Comment #32

    love the cap! and the meaning behind it :) x

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  33. Michaela Comment #33

    Sincerely, impressive, sincerely, the best article written on blog. Ever. Thank you for it, it warmed my heart really, now I know I can get A from anatomy exam exactly in a month :-D WE CAN DO IT !

    Whats your height? (Or does anyone know?) I found you couple days ago, and I love your outfits with wedge sneakers, they are brilliant and nice inspiration :o)…

  34. Vicki Comment #34

    This is such a great post, really inspirational! I’ve started doing just that, I’m dreaming of being a successful blogger, so have started working so hard step by step and things are picking up :) dedication pays off!
    I really love your blog, keep up the great work :)
    Vicki xx
    ricoandtine.com

  35. Kelsey Bang Comment #35

    what great words of advice! thanks for sharing! fun outfit! you look darling in a baseball cap!
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  36. Yoshie Romero Comment #36

    I love lo~ve your blog! I love fashion style.
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  37. Anna Comment #37

    Such inspiring words, thank you so much, really motivated me!

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  38. Kacie Comment #38

    Ah love this! Those shorts are so cute and your legs are perfect!

  39. kelsey Comment #39

    cute camera and adore your simple style! so photogenic!
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  40. I Showed Up In Boots Comment #40

    A very inspring post, indeed! Thank you for these words. Plans are EVERYTHING. And you look so good in these shorts. Great cut for you!

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  41. Sara Morais Comment #41

    I bet you get a lot of emails asking you how to be a successful blogger ahaha That has to be the most asked question. We all want our blogs to be successful, right? I do and I still am not but things don’t work out in the same way for everyone. People are different so we all think and act differently.
    But you’re right, we should always dream big and make it happen. You know that quote from Walt Disney: “If you can dream it, you can do it”.
    This is a very inspiring post, thank you for the words :)

    xx, Sara

  42. SHanon Comment #42

    Love how you mix sporty and chic pieces together in this outfit!

    Shannon
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  43. Chase @ The Smell of Summer Comment #43

    I love the red olympus camera that you are holding during the photoshoot :)

    Chase Miller
    The Smell of Summer – A Boutique Lifestyle Blog

  44. Sequoia Comment #44

    Thanks Jules! Absolutely loved this post for the words that you’ve written to encourage us all to follow our dreams as you’ve been following yours. This post especially spoke to me at this juncture in my life. Keep up the great work :)

  45. Veloria in Velvet Comment #45

    You seriously look great! Not many people can make baseball caps look so chic :) Loving the mix of patterns on the shorts and shirt!

    Veloria in velvet
    http://www.veloriainvelvet.wordpress.com

  46. Julissa Perez Comment #46

    I love how real you are! Thanks for the motivation. Your a TRUE inspiration in all aspects.

    thank you love!!!

    julissa

  47. ClassiCourtxo Comment #47

    Wow! I so needed this today. I definitely am a person who dreams big, but sometimes my dreams scare the hell out of me! Thank you for the encouragement to keep it movin’ and achieve my goals.

    ClassiCourtxo
    ClassiCourtxo.blogspot.com

  48. Erica Comment #48

    I love that top!

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  49. Olivia J. Comment #49

    That whole outfit is amazing! So LA!

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  50. Char Comment #50

    You’re such an inspiration, seriously. Thank you for this post, beautiful. <3

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  51. pipa Comment #51

    Great heels!

  52. Jaclyn Comment #52

    honestly the most inspiring motivating post! love it jules. oh and the look- on point boo!

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  53. Michèle Comment #53

    love the post and the outfit! soooo cool!

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  54. SOFIA Comment #54

    I love this post!!
    Lots of love from Sweden.

  55. DRAMA Comment #55

    LOVE YOUR LOOK!

  56. The Fashion Panda Comment #56
  57. Andreia Tarelho Comment #57

    I have been a fan for quite some time, i truly admire your style, the way you mix different trends , styles, textures with such a fashionable result !
    There are a lot of one stripe sandals in the market but those have to be my favorite, i’m sorry they are too expensive…but oh so beautiful ;)
    xoxo

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  58. Kathrina Comment #58

    Such an inspiring post. Thank you for that!
    And your shoes…to die for!

  59. Sarah Comment #59

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE how you can turn the most casual pieces into such a classy look just by pairing it with heels.

  60. Sarah Comment #60

    You’re so inspiring !! Great text, I totally agree with you !
    You look truly amazing, your blog is the best I know, congrats for everything :)
    Kisses from Paris!

  61. Rose Comment #61

    Your style is baller, always inspiring. Thanks for sharing. -Rose

  62. Katrina Comment #62

    Jules, you are incredible! I <3 you! Thanks!!

  63. Allison Comment #63

    Thank you for writing such inspiring words. I love your blog and it’s so nice to read your optimistic messages along with seeing the beautiful fashion. It truly makes a difference in my day.

  64. Alina Comment #64

    You are such a lovely person – beautiful inside and out. Great advice on this post. Keep it up

  65. tanya Comment #65

    So nice of you to write something so encouraging. i only just started working on my dream and its the best thing I ever did, you’re right, things do seem to just fall into place :)

  66. Danielle Comment #66

    I just want to say that I’m truly inspired and got that push I was looking for when I read this post. I love how your more than just about putting outfits together. You give motivation and have a really great aura. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It was greatly appreciated.

  67. 3girls1apple Comment #67

    Great inspirational words. Love everything you said and its so true. Thanks for helping other believe from 3girls1apple.

  68. Serina Mercier Comment #68

    Love your style. You look real cool!

    Serina

  69. Jana @ 333 Hand Lettering Project Comment #69

    love the chambray blue blouse!! It’s perfect for spring :)
    Jana @ 333 Days of Hand Lettering

  70. Mary - The Classy Cubicle Comment #70

    OBSESSED with this hat! And, absolutely love the photos. Amazing!!

    xxoo,
    Mary
    The Classy Cubicle

  71. Adrienne Comment #71

    This post is soooo inspiring! I love it. And have pinned it – just for inspiration! Keep it up girl! Can’t wait til you get more tees in stock, I must have one!

  72. BFASHION Comment #72

    WHERE IS YOUR SHIRT THAT YOU ARE WEARING IN THE 4TH PICTURE WHERE WE CAN ONLY SEE YOUR BACK??

    I NEED IT ASAP ITS SO AMAZING. ALSO LOVE YOUR STYLE YOU ARE SUCH AN INSPIRING PERSON AND IDOL =)

  73. Gurpreet Comment #73

    recently stumbled upon your blog – and since then ive become obsessed !!!l
    i adore your red baseball hat and have been searching for one exactly like this for a while now. I went onto the j crew website but looks like they don’t have that one anymore :( do you know of anywhere else you wouldn’t mind recommending to me. I would greatly appreciate it :) x

  74. Naaj Rona Comment #74

    This post brought tears to my eyes. whatever you have mentioned is so true.
    Unfortunately, some of us are too scared of either hurting someone or losing someone. It’s impossible to keep everybody happy and somewhere along the way, we sacrifice too much to keep the other person happy.

  75. Katerina Comment #75

    So perfect! I love the mix of sporty with the chic heels!!

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  76. Diana Comment #76

    Awesome photos!!!

    xoxo, Diana ☠
    http://www.TheNeonFactor.com

  77. Jen Comment #77

    Where are your bracelets from?

  78. State beauty Comment #78

    I love your shorts!! :)

    Kisses

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  79. nahomi Comment #79

    awesome pictures<3
    also i loved what you wrote ,it is very inspirational to me
    and i will forsure take your advice because if you dont work hard then you
    wont be able to achieve anything. hopefully my dreams will come true sooner or later [:

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  81. Onnara Comment #81

    ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR BLOG AND YOUR POSTS….SPECIALLY THIS ONE!!!!! THANK YOU! <3

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